Obstinence can be an endearing trait in someone. It speaks to loyalty, courage, and steadfastness. But in the face of a relationship, where compromise and concessions are near-mandatory of both parties in order to ensure peace and the formulation of lasting ties, such a trait may end up with one finding themselves lacking of any meaningful interpersonal connections. No one wants to be constantly told what they can and cannot do, nor do they want to feel like they must cloister themselves, all so that they can have a certain person in their life. While the last statement may seem counter-intuitive to the negative connotations implied by a less-than-desirable manifestation of obstinate personality, there exists a vast difference between bullheaded unwillingness to adapt and a willingness to compromise; especially with regards to relationships.
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